Afternoon shagging ;)

Afternoon shagging is always good fun
Even in this scorching hot sun
Over by his desk things got hot
When he wanted to smack my bot
 
I had done something wrong and had to pay
So over the knee he now did say
Before I knew it I was in position 
Bottom revealed for my submission
 
With a few good thwacks upon my rear
My hubby he does likes to domineer
he tells me that I’m a naughty girl
And now he has to touch my pearl
 
His fingers probe and find her all wet
My misdemeanour, I have no regret
Inserting his fingers in and out
Faster, harder, deeper I shout
 
He demands that I’m to come first
And so to the bedroom we dispersed
He lies me down upon the bed
And proceeds to do aforesaid 
 
Devoured  like ice cream on a hot day
His tongue everywhere, oh my I must say
With finger fucking and my trusty device
I come like a train and in a thrice
 
So now I must suck his stirring cock
For this is all part of our wedlock
His pants I know I must now discard 
So I can lick it and suck it real  hard
 
Enough is enough he now wants to fuck
So onto my knees & he runs amuck
Inserting his weapon it feels sublime
And oh my goodness it’s only  lunchtime
 
He thrusts and he pumps as he holds me near
By Grabbing my clothes it lifts up my rear
A better position a much better fit
For the hubby who likes me, to him submit
 
So of afternoon shagging, here’s my review
I’m sure it is something one should do
Much better than working, of which he should
But you know you all would do if you could 😉
 
KS.x
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

The brain is the biggest sex organ.

The brain is the biggest sex organ

The key to a great sex life is a healthy brain

I was just going to post the nugget ‘ The brain is the biggest sex organ’ and leave it at that, short and snappy!

But, as I believe a lot of people know this information already, I’m thinking I should at least look into it a bit more and maybe share with you and expand my brain cells at the same time, so here are some more nuggets I found out today.

KS. X

There is so much more to sexual attraction than meets the eye and it only takes just a split second for us to feel attraction and desire for a potential partner.

Connection and intimacy begins in our mind.

Your mind controls your body and your body talks back to your mind. This conversation will either cause sexual excitement or sexual inhibition.

One researcher found that it can take less than a fifth of second to fall for someone.

Professor Stephanie Ortigue, author of the Syracuse University Study, reported that brain chemicals such as oxytocin, adrenaline and vasopressin can all be released almost immediately when we see someone we are attracted to.

Research from this study found that, the rush of pleasurable brain chemicals that are released when we fall in love, are similar to the endorphin rush that people get from using drugs like cocaine.

Brain health and brain illness have a powerful affect on sexuality.

When your brain works right, you work right.

Try using Asian ginseng, gingko biloba and L-arginine, these will boost the blood flow to the brain.

Anything that decreases blood flow to your brain will decrease it to your genitals, including caffeine, nicotine and a lack of sleep.

Many brain issues get in the way of great sex, depression is just one. Treating these issues can enhance our ability to connect with others and perform sexually’, according to Dr. Amen. ( I bet we all know someone who has been afflicted by this illness. KS )

He recommends omega-3 fatty acids in the form of fish oil, exercise and l-tyrosine (the amino acid building block for the neurotransmitter dopamine) for increasing the activity in the prefrontal cortex of the brain, thereby diminishing these conditions.

There…end of nuggets for now.  

So to summarise in my own way…Look after your brain, feed it all the supplements you can, give it plenty of sleep and also feed it with good talk… I believe that the conversations that we have with ourselves are the most important conversations that we can have, and not just ones about sex, although they can be the most interesting. Remember confidence comes from within, if you feel confident, happy and healthy then you are more likely to feel sexy, therefore bringing you lots of admiring male or female glances, and maybe you will be more likely to meet your true mate quicker. I however am lucky to have found mine…but I can still enjoy the glances, when I get one of course.

So remember ALL of the above, buy some fish oil, ditch those fags and the coffee and get yourself a good nights sleep and perhaps tomorrow night and for many more after that you will be having some great sex with the love of your life.

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Love is…..knowing when to say sorry

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So…I don’t know what to say, I don’t know what to do
Oh….For what was said last night has truly made me blue
Really..I didn’t mean to hurt, didn’t want to have a fight
Readily..If I could take it all back, I would with all my might
Yes……….I’m sorry, so please forgive and cuddle me tonight 🙂

 

Love Your Nuts :)

If your libido could do with a boost then you need to eat more nuts and seeds. Nuts and seeds contain monounsaturated fats, our bodies convert this into the good type of cholesterol that our sex hormones need to work properly. Almonds are a great choice because they are high in zinc, selenium and Vitamin E, which are all important for our sexual health. Zinc in particular is good for increasing libido.

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So what are you waiting for, go get a handful of nuts today!  KS                  

The 3 Things You Need For A Rock-Solid Relationship

Re-blogged,

The 3 Things You Need For A Rock-Solid Relationship.

I couldn’t agree with you more, thefiercelane.com and I hope you don’t mind me sharing your very informative post? I too am very interested in sharing information that can help couples improve their relationships. See (keeping the spark alive No 1) for another idea today and for more to come soon 🙂

KS.

Keeping the spark alive: Number 1

I have been wondering for a while now, what should my next post be about? After much deliberation and procrastination I have decided that following my original script, (In my about me page) I should be imparting some relationship tips…”Who am I to do that?” you say. “What qualifies me to do such a thing?” you say…..Well I have been married for 18, nearly 19 years and in this day and age I think that is pretty good going. I think myself and my hubby have a great relationship and it has only got better year on year. So this is the first of many (hopefully) top tips, for bettering your relationship and keeping that all important spark alive. 

Tip number 1

Send your partner a message today. It could be a text or an email or a note in his lunchbox or even a simple heart with your initials e.g. K4H drawn on his car window. The dirtier the better…the window that is, not the message….although…:) Anyway, as long as it is something that shows him or her that you love them or are thinking about them. We all need to feel loved and wanted and we shouldn’t take each other for granted, which can happen when you have been together a long time. If you would like to be on the receiving end of a sexy or loving message or poem you can be darn sure they would too…so do it first and get the ball moving today to keep the Spark alive.

Most days my hubby and I have a few flirty emails or sexy texts and now and again and even a poem or two. This one that I am going to share with you is from last week and is just an example of one of our messages. Yours doesn’t have to be anywhere near as long as this one, your message or poem can be short and sweet,  just as long as it conveys your thoughts or emotions.

Hubby’s emails are predictably in blue and mine are in pink.

She’s my beb, I miss her so

I’d like to pack my things and go

From work I say but not from home

I want to offer her my bone

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But yesterday, she felt so down

I saw her with a great big frown

I hope today that she will know

That I in Stafford love her so.

Next, a phone call from me to H to say thank you for the poem……blah blah blah and we talked of the great sex we had had last night.

Panties discarded on the floor

Memories of the night before.

He licked my pussy and i got a good fucking

Tonight me thinks I’ll be doing some sucking!  Mmmmmm 😉

You make me horny!

My darling in Stafford with his bone

I enjoyed our talk upon the phone

It’s horny I make you so you say

Well come on home and have your way 🙂

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I love you!

K.xxx                                                                                     

Thanks honey! 

I’ll have my way as well I will,

Although you may be sleeping still

A gentle trace around your sex

Will give a clue to what comes next. 

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I love you too you very sexy poet (and luvhhhrrrr!) xxx

I loved that last one, I want to know what’s next? xxx

His gentle touch is feather light

A harbinger of pure delight 

Pleasure seeking, probing further

Descending into sexual fervour

Oh yeah, oh yeah, more more more lol xx

Not so gentle, passions flow

Torrential love runs down below

He’s moving southward, stares at her

His wry smile spreads, what will occur?

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Your turn……

Oh my my, he has made me so very wet

Does he think I’m still asleep, no I will bet

For his gentle touch has gathered pace

So aroused now my heartbeats race

Her heartbeats race, as he expects

His fingers slip into her sex

She arches up, he plunges deep

There’s no damn way that she’s asleep

Oh damm it now my game is up for sure

So move your fingers for I want more

Has sleepy touching made your cock hard?

If it has then my slumber was not marred 😉

Very good my sexy poet. 🙂

Now for the last….

Her writhing gives away her plan

Not feigning now, don’t give a damn

With cock erect, he moves on in 

And plunges deep inside her quim

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See you soon sexy laydaaaay 🙂

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We had fun later that night on his return from work, so why don’t you try it today and see what you get tonight? KS.